I was talking to a kindred spirit this week. We had just met
and found out that we both grew up in very small towns raised by mothers who
taught us that we could achieve anything we set out to do. We discussed why we thought our mothers were
able to send this message to us and what motivated them.
My mother married as a teenager right after
my dad came back from WWII. We discussed
how our mothers had very limited opportunities when they were coming of
age. My mother never had the chance to decide
if she wanted to further her education, or what she wanted to be. She became a wife and mother (and was amazing
as a wife and is wonderful still as a mother) because her choices were limited. She later worked outside the home and became
very successful at her job.
She told me from a young age that marriage was an option
that education was a keeper and that I could do anything I wanted to do. So growing up I just thought everyone had
the same opportunity and the ability to do anything they wanted. It was in college and after that I saw so
many people who didn’t feel the way I did.
They didn’t have a world of choices for them, or no one told them they
could do anything they wanted.
So, when we work with younger women just coming up in the
business world I think it’s important that we nurture them and teach them that
they can do anything they set out to do.
That we don’t limit their choices or encourage them to take the same
path we took. Girl power is a strong
power and as women we must embrace that and spread it around.
Suzanne Cormier
Executive Director
BizWorks (Small Business Incubator)
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Executive Director
BizWorks (Small Business Incubator)
Follow Suzanne Cormier on Facebook and
Twitter @BizWorksCenter